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Everything you need to know about waxing

People always tell you not to play with fire, but no one mentions hot wax! Sexy, sexy, and a little adventurous. – Waxing will definitely raise your body temperature! Waxing is a classic BDSM activity that falls under the category of temperature games, but that doesn’t mean it has to be pain-related unless that’s what you’re looking for! The thrill of wax droplets slowly hardening on the skin is an amazing tool to enhance physical and mental arousal and ignite the senses.

What is wax play?

Waxing involves dripping or pouring melted wax onto your partner’s skin to stimulate libido. It can range from a more sensual hot oil massage to wax bomb BDSM, which will deliver more heat and pleasant pain, depending on the type of candle you use, but see below for more.

Why try to play with wax figures?

As I mentioned before, the wax figure game can stimulate the body and mind, leading to a state of high excitement, which is very exciting and very enjoyable. Here are some popular waxing benefits

The slightly adventurous nature of a wax figure game can be exciting, and the urge to excite translates into awakening.

Waxing on your skin creates a delicious warm or burning sensation.

Heat increases blood flow and improves sensitivity.

It keeps your senses on high alert, which amplifies other senses as well.

Heat can create some amazing artwork on your skin.

Trying new things with your partner can increase intimacy and add some excitement to your sexuality.

Which wax or waxing should you use?

Do you think playing with wax figures sounds exciting? Great! But please don’t take any candles you can find! Playing with wax requires some very special candles to keep the wax melted at a safe temperature or you risk getting burned badly, which is definitely not the sexy experience you want!

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3354 Soy Wax for Beginners

Soy wax is skin-safe and has a low melting point, which means the wax doesn’t need to be too hot to melt. This makes it ideal for first time playing with wax as there is a lower risk of burns. Many massage candles contain low-melting soy wax and other skin-nourishing oils, so you can enjoy the sensory feel of a warm wax without making the candle too hot.

Higher Strength – Paraffin

Paraffin wax burns at a higher temperature than soy wax, but is still safe for the skin. If you want more severe burns, every drop, this temperature is perfect and is usually used for waxing BDSM. Paraffin candles are usually tapered (long and thin) candles that come in different colors.

Let me melt sentimental candles.

Materials to Avoid

Playing with wax is definitely exciting, but there are also some risks! You should always stick to soy or paraffin candles and avoid them as they have a high melting point and can cause burns.


Glyceryl Stearate

Some dyes also raise the melting point, so only use colored candles designed for playing with wax. How to prepare for waxing

Now that you have chosen the perfect candle, it is time to prepare your body and space. It won’t take long, but given the risks and confusion of playing with hot wax, it’s essential.

I highly recommend removing body hair from the areas you want to remove unless you want free hair removal!

Cover the sheets with an old towel or blanket that you don’t mind waxing or oiling. If you like messy games, then protective flashing is a good investment!

Prepare some safety equipment. – A fire extinguisher, first aid kit, some cold water (not cold water) and a clean cloth are all safety necessities.

Build a safe word with your partner about which parts of your body you like and which parts of your body don’t want to be waxed. Never put wax on your face or genitals, as these areas are more sensitive and have a higher risk of injury.

How to wax

Now it’s time to have some fun! As with any new sexual activity, it’s best to start gently, build up the intensity as you progress, and always communicate clearly with your partner.

Light a candle of your choice and let it burn until some of the wax melts. For massage candles, let the candle burn until there is an even layer of liquid wax on top of the candle.

Blow out the flames.

Test the temperature of the wax on your own skin and have your partner test it so they know what to expect.

Always start with less sensitive areas of the body, such as the back, shoulders, and arms.

Drop the wax high enough to allow it to cool as it falls, but not so high that it overflows – start at about 15 to 20 inches and adjust as needed.

Give your partner time to get used to the feeling, then move on to more sensitive areas, like the inner thighs or stomach, if they so desire.

Try different sensations like dripping or pouring or blowing wax to cool it down faster.

When you’re ready to clean up, you have a few options. First you can scrape off the wax with a dull (very dull) knife or credit card. Some people really enjoy this feeling! You can also peel off the wax with your fingers.

Don’t forget to take care of yourself! Some specific ideas for waxing include taking a hot bath or tub followed by some lotion or aloe vera to soothe the skin.

Add a little spice to your wax figure game.

Now that you have the basics down, it’s time to learn some more advanced waxing techniques. Wax games can enhance your senses, and adding other senses allows you to play some very intense games! This is great if you want to take your wax figure game to the next level.

hot and cold

Combining the sweet heat of wax with the biting coldness of something cold is exciting! Grab an ice cube or cool a steel dildo or glass rod in cold water, then alternate hot wax drops and cold caresses to keep your partner on your toes! If you’re using ice, be sure to let it melt a bit first so it doesn’t stick to the skin. Njoy Pure Wand

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sensory deprivation

Add more anticipation with an eye mask. Blindfolding not only creates a sense of obedience, it also increases the excitement of not knowing when and where the next drip will land.

Suppress the game

Add some restraint and you can make intoxicating wax figures and games of thrones! Bed restraints, like these on athletic sheets, which I love, are perfect for this situation because they put you in the position of a spread-winged eagle, exposing your body for your partner to tease with wax.

Under-bed exercise sheet restraint system

make a masterpiece

If you have colored dripping candles, use your partner’s body as a canvas. Try out different patterns with colors and be sure to enjoy your creations when you’re done! This can also make for very funny and naughty photos!

Waxing Safety

Playing with wax does have some risks. After all, you are playing with fire! Whenever you participate in a high-risk game, be sure to educate yourself on risk, let yourself know what you identify with, how to limit risk, and what to do if something goes wrong. The BDSM community uses the acronym RACK to emphasize the importance of this.

Here are some simple safety guidelines to help you stay safe.

Have a fire extinguisher and a first aid kit ready. If you do get a burn, use a cold compress, but avoid very cold water or ice.

Keep loose fabrics away from candle flames.

Always test the temperature of the wax.

Do not drip wax near the eyes, face, head or genitals.

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